This is a blog by a "real" mom for other "real" moms. I am no fakey who is wonderful at everything....I do a lot of different things and try to do them well...but when it comes right down to it, I am just an average mom trying to do the right thing to ensure my family is happy and healthy and that my kids grow up able to take care of themselves and get out of my hair.
Sunday, April 22, 2012
Sunday Dinner
We had a yummy dinner tonite: mushroom ravioli, asparagus with browned butter/balsamic sauce, salmon with mustard dill sauce and artichokes. And I had tofu with my dinner. YUM!
Spectacles
Salmon April 2012
It is an amazing salmon season! Jim went out today and caught 18 pound salmon! The freezer is filling up!
Thursday, April 19, 2012
Beady Little Eyes
Blind
Tuesday, April 17, 2012
Like a Tree
Tall like a tree!
Window Covering
At least that is what I thought until I received the re-strung blind back in the mail and it was NOT our blind! It is about 1.5 feet too short - they sent us the wrong blind!
Now what?????
Thursday, April 12, 2012
Handbag - part 2

Hook Me Up
Wednesday, April 11, 2012
Tuesday, April 10, 2012
Book Reviews
The first one is called: Fifty Shades of Grey by E.L. James
This is the book description from Amazon: "When literature student Anastasia Steele goes to interview young entrepreneur Christian Grey, she encounters a man who is beautiful, brilliant, and intimidating. The unworldly, innocent Ana is startled to realize she wants this man and, despite his enigmatic reserve, finds she is desperate to get close to him. Unable to resist Ana’s quiet beauty, wit, and independent spirit, Grey admits he wants her, too—but on his own terms.
Shocked yet thrilled by Grey’s singular erotic tastes, Ana hesitates. For all the trappings of success—his multinational businesses, his vast wealth, his loving family—Grey is a man tormented by demons and consumed by the need to control. When the couple embarks on a daring, passionately physical affair, Ana discovers Christian Grey’s secrets and explores her own dark desires.
Erotic, amusing, and deeply moving, the Fifty Shades Trilogy is a tale that will obsess you, possess you, and stay with you forever."
I wanted to read this book because it was the hot talk in the "mom circles". Mom's across the US are talking about this in book clubs and on the sidelines of the soccer fields, so I had to see what it was about. I had heard it described as "mommy porn" because it was a little racy.
A "little racy" is an understatement - it is disturbing drivel! The main characters are involved in a totally warped relationship. I decided this morning that I am giving up on the book and not reading anymore. I have a friend who is reading it too and she is equally disturbed by the relationship and absurdity of the book. She did something that I think was very wise --- she skipped and read the last chapter!
The second book I am reading is: The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks by Rebecca Skloot.
This is the book description from Amazon: "Her name was Henrietta Lacks, but scientists know her as HeLa. She was a poor Southern tobacco farmer who worked the same land as her slave ancestors, yet her cells—taken without her knowledge—became one of the most important tools in medicine. The first “immortal” human cells grown in culture, they are still alive today, though she has been dead for more than sixty years. If you could pile all HeLa cells ever grown onto a scale, they’d weigh more than 50 million metric tons—as much as a hundred Empire State Buildings. HeLa cells were vital for developing the polio vaccine; uncovered secrets of cancer, viruses, and the atom bomb’s effects; helped lead to important advances like in vitro fertilization, cloning, and gene mapping; and have been bought and sold by the billions.Yet Henrietta Lacks remains virtually unknown, buried in an unmarked grave.
Now Rebecca Skloot takes us on an extraordinary journey, from the “colored” ward of Johns Hopkins Hospital in the 1950s to stark white laboratories with freezers full of HeLa cells; from Henrietta’s small, dying hometown of Clover, Virginia—a land of wooden slave quarters, faith healings, and voodoo—to East Baltimore today, where her children and grandchildren live and struggle with the legacy of her cells."
This book is totally worth the investment of time! It is fascinating to learn about this woman, the time frame in which she lived and the advancements in science that are directly credited to her cells.
Based on my book choices of late, I am starting to think of myself as quite an intellectual!
Monday, April 09, 2012
Changes at Work
I was surprised that it affected me so much as it did as I am pretty level headed and logical in my approach to things. But we have spent a lot of time together over the last 12 years, which included:
* The birth of her second child who is now 9
* The death of loved ones
* The death of beloved pets
* Serious illnesses
* Accomplishments of our kids
* Movement from one company to another
As Jim so wisely put it, "you guys put a lot of miles in together."
I wish could say something really wise about the situation but right now I am still too upset at the change to think there is anything good about it.
Daisy Babushka
Sunday, April 08, 2012
Thursday, April 05, 2012
Tuesday, April 03, 2012
Chicken Wings
But the girls want to have chicken wings too because they love them. Yesterday in the car, the were having a conversation about how many chicken wings we need and this is how it went down:
Ry: I have been thinking about how many chicken wings we need.
Grace: I love chicken wings.
Ry: I love them too.
Ry: Drew......Mikey......they eat A LOT (those are the big brothers)!
Grace: They come in buckets of 25 and 50 at Wingstop.
Ry: I think we need 150.
Me: There will only be 18 of us and I don't eat them.
Ry: But Drew will eat yours.
Grace: Yea, at least 100.
Me: We are having spaghetti and meatballs too.
Ry: Yea, I think we need 150.
So then I told Ry's mom about this conversation and she filled me in on her follow up conversation with Ry:
Ry: Mom, when are you going to get the food because we need like 150 wings. Chris says there is 18 people coming. And Drew needs loompa but not just his own some for everyone else, so like 40. (Note - loompa is actually lumpia, which are egg rolls but Drew can never remember what they are called and renamed them loompa.)
Ry's mom: Really..150 wings and 40 loompas? Wow, that’s a lot.
Ry: Yea but we all eat a lot and this food is GOOD. (note the emphasis on GOOD and the implication that the other food is NOT as good and therefore not as much is consumed)
Ry's mom: Gross. Ok. Whatever you say its your bday (in her head she was saying there is not a chance in hell I am getting 150 wings and 40 loompa!)
I LOVE these girls! Most pre-teen girls are thinking about boys, music, clothes, the mall.... Ours are thinking about chicken wings....and lots of them!
Tea time
Thursday, March 29, 2012
New Toys
Angry Birds Fashion
Tuesday, March 27, 2012
Sleep Tight
An experiment?
Last nite, I left my cell phone at work. That means no texts or phone calls until tomorrow morning when I go back to the office.
It's been a really interesting experience.
I sent out an email to a bunch of my contacts who I am in pretty constant contact with to let them know that I am going "old school" and to call me at home if they need me.
So last nite:
I was pelted with email responses about how:
They can't possibly manage without being able to text me for 24 hours
They would contact me via postal mail if they need me (not effective!)
And:
Our home phone rang off the hook
People got smart and started texting Jim and having him relay messages to me
I have to say that I have a total sense of peace knowing I can not use my phone. And that is coming from someone who has their phone with them literally 24/7.
Forget About It
It is about a girl that is always used as a door mat and after an accident fakes amnesia in order to reinvent herself. It's an amusing, easy read.
In true book club spirit, we will meet to discuss the book for 5 minutes and then spend the rest of the evening eating, drinking and laughing!
Hooray for book club!
Monday, March 26, 2012
Archery Par Course

Rest in Peace - Vadar

Little Vadar "Vay Vay" Walker has gone to doggy heaven to be with Kiely, Champ, Casey Bear, Scooby and all the other well loved dogs that have come before him.
He was the Walker's dog who they rescued about 4 years ago from the parking lot of the rental building they own.
Doug tried to rescue him one day and was attacked! Only to go back the next day and see that Vadar was now injured. This time, he didn't take no for an answer and picked him up to rescue him!
They took him to the Animal Shelter because they already had a dog and did not need a vicious, injured chihuahua mix on their hands!
But when they found out that he would be euthanized at the shelter, they went back and paid $50 to adopt that vicious, injured chihuahua mix. Unconditional love made him into a great little dog.
He was a sporty little dog who would hike long distances and wrestle with his big dog sister, Panda.
Last week he suffered a terrible injury - a ruptured disk in his back. Being a tremendously loyal family, they did everything they could to make it better, but it was just too bad and last nite, Vadar went to doggie heaven after a day of pampering by his family.
Rest in peace to the original Chiweenie. The world is a little sadder today without you!
Thursday, March 22, 2012
Cauliflower Pizza
My New Handbag
Monday, March 19, 2012
Murray
Sunday, March 18, 2012
Fort in the Snow....in the buff.....
So this morning, Bug wanted to see the fort we built at the cabin covered with snow. So Jim and Marty went to take a pic and this is what they came back with. I just wish I could see Bug's face when she got the pic on email!
Gracie's award write up
Here is the excerpt that was read:
Grace may have to work harder than most students yet she does not let her dyslexia affect her ability to be successful at school. She demonstrates her tenacity by attending tutoring sessions after school to support her learning in the areas that she struggles with. In addition to her after school tutoring, Grace has a math tutor who comes to school 2 times a week to help Grace for 45 minutes.
With all the extra tutoring and time required to complete school work, it is important to note that Grace never uses her disability as an excuse nor does she complain about the extra work.
She is described by her teacher as a poised, mature and very responsible person. She is described by her friends as perceptive, caring and confident friend. Her family is very proud of who she is and her achievements.
Grace has improved dramatically in the last two years. Her writing and work in all subject areas has grown from B’s and C’s to almost all A’s in all subjects. That progress is due to Grace’s perseverance and drive. It is our pleasure to recognize her with the Every Student Succeeding Award!
She's a great role model. I think your mother-in-law said it best when she said she teaches us. So glad you enjoyed the event.
Friday, March 16, 2012
Irish Soda Bread
Ingredients
5 cups sifted all-purpose unbleached flour
3/4 cup sugar
2 teaspoons baking powder
1 1/2 teaspoons salt
1 teaspoon baking soda
1/4 pound (1 stick) butter
2 1/2 cups buttermilk
1 large egg, slightly beaten
Directions
Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F. Generously butter 2 (9 by 5-inch) bread pans.
Stir together the sifted flour, sugar, baking powder, salt, and baking soda. Cut in the butter and mix very thoroughly with your hands until it gets grainy. Stir in raisins and caraway seeds.
Add the buttermilk and egg to the flour mixture. Stir until well moistened. Shape dough into 2 loaves and place in the pans.
Bake for 1 hour. Test with a toothpick for doneness. Cool in the pans for 3 to 5 minutes. Transfer to a wire rack to cool.
St Patty's Day - 2012
Thursday, March 15, 2012
Mexican Rice
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
Bicycle Kick

Drew is back to playing soccer after having taken a break for the fall and not playing high school soccer. This past weekend was his first game and tournament in about a year. He was a little rusty at first but got back into the swing of things pretty fast.
I loved this series of pics. This is what it looks like when someone 6'3" and 200 pounds does a bicycle kick.
Nick...get up!

Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Hiccup!
Totem
Here is what Totem is about:
"TOTEM traces the fascinating journey of the human species from its original amphibian state to its ultimate desire to fly. The characters evolve on a stage evoking a giant turtle, the symbol of origin for many ancient civilizations.
Inspired by many founding myths, TOTEM illustrates, through a visual and acrobatic language, the evolutionary progress of species.
Somewhere between science and legend TOTEM explores the ties that bind Man to other species, his dreams and his infinite potential."
Tip for stinky people
So I have been hunting around for laundry soap that helps because the regular stuff doesn't cut it!
I have found two that work:
Bac-Out by Biokleen - you can get it at the grocery store
Penguin Wash - you can get it at Sports Basement and probably other sporting good stores
So - if you or your kids have stinky gear....try these out. I highly recommend them and it may save you some time in searching for something that works!
Sunday, March 11, 2012
Sushi for Dummies
Crockpot Breakfast Casserole
* No onions
* No bacon - but that would have been good for the meat eaters
* Added diced green chilies, a big can
* Topped with salsa when it was done
* Used a mixture of sharp cheddar and mexican cheese
I would recommend going heavy on the spices as it was a little bland. I would also suggest serving with guac, sour cream, green onions and cilantro.
Next time I am going to try putting brocolli and dill in it.
Crockpot Breakfast Casserole
Here is what you need: Serve 8-10
- 1 dozen eggs
- 1 cup milk
- 2 lbs of hash brown potatoes. (you can use frozen hash browns, just cook for 8-9 hours, instead of the 7-8)
- 1 lb of bacon or veggie bacon- cooked, drained and cut into pieces. (feel free to substitute with your favorite breakfast meat..sausage, ham, etc)
- 1/2 cup onions - diced
- 3 cups cheddar cheese - shredded
- 1/4 teaspoon dry mustard
- 1/4 teaspoon garlic powder
- 1 tsp salt & 1/2 tsp of pepper (I am recommending an additional pinch of salt and pepper for each layer of hash browns)
1. Beat 12 eggs until well blended.
2. Next, beat in milk and garlic powder, mustard, 1 tsp salt & 1/2 tsp pepper. Set aside.
3. Layer potatoes (I suggest to season each potato layer to taste.....a small pinch of salt and pepper) and sprinkle 1/3 of the onions.
4. Next sprinkle 1/3 of the bacon.
5. Last but not least, top with 1 cup of cheese.
6. Repeat this layering 2 more times to have a total of 3 layers....ending with cheese.
7. Take your egg mixture and pour over layers. For refrigerated hash browns, set cook for 7-8 hours on low. For frozen hash browns, cook for 8-9 hours on low or until eggs are set.
Gigi's Artwork
Friday, March 09, 2012
Teacher's Recommendation
This is the letter that Grace's teacher wrote to nominate her for award:
Grace has been in my class for both 5th and 6th grade. I am very impressed with Grace’s tenacity and courage because Grace is dyslexic and has to work harder than most students at her school work. In addition to going to school every day, Grace has tutoring after school to support her learning in the areas that she struggles with due to her dyslexia (math, reading, writing, spelling). In addition to her after school tutoring, Grace has a math tutor who comes to school 2 times a week to help Grace for 45 minutes. With all the extra tutoring and time required to complete school work, it is important to note that never does Grace use her disability as an excuse or complain about the extra work.
Grace is a poised, mature, and very responsible person. She stands far above her classmates in the areas of maturity and self – assurance. Grace is also a very perceptive and caring individual with a group of close friends.
Because of the dyslexia, Grace’s test scores in the areas of word analysis and grammar, reduce her overall Language Arts test scores. Her reading comprehension is at a high proficient level to advanced level. She is insightful and makes very deep connections between the books we are reading in class and other books and life. She has a deep wealth of background knowledge that she draws on in her thinking about her reading.
Grace has improved dramatically in the last two years. Her writing and work in all subject areas has grown from B’s and C’s to almost all A’s in all subjects. I know that this progress is due to one factor, Grace’s perseverance and drive.
I highly recommend Grace as a candidate for the Every Student Succeeding Award for 2011-2012. I cannot say enough good things about her.
Regards,
Ms Reiss
6th grade teacher
Thursday, March 08, 2012
Untrustworthy
Award Ceremony
Gracie received an award this week from school called "Every Child Succeeds". It is an award for kids who excel against hardships and of course Gracie's hardship is her dyslexia. One student from each school in the district gets nominated by the teachers and principal at that school. Gracie was the one child chosen from her whole school.
They did a nice ceremony where they talked about each child and what they had to overcome and then gave them a medal, a certificate and a rose. I am trying to get the write up that they did for Grace and if I do, I will post it. But the "jist" of what they said was that she has to try harder than anyone, never complains, never uses it as an excuse, is incredibly committed, is mature and kind! Jim and I were teary eyed while they were reading about her. Her giant big brother was bawling like a baby!
After the ceremony, we went out to dinner with the Grandmas and Grandpas and celebrated Gracie's success and her years of hard work!
Sometimes it takes someone else noticing a job well done to make you take the time to celebrate. A special thank you to Ms Reiss, Grace's teacher for noticing and nominating Grace! And a special shout out to Grace's ed therapists for their hard work and commitment.
You will see a locket in the pics. We got that for Grace and gave it to her before the ceremony. It says "Dream" on the back of it and you can put charms inside the locket. She can change the charms as she desires. The charms she has are:
A "G" - for obvious reasons
An Eiffel Tower - to symbolize her love of travel and adventure
A heart shaped birthstone - to symbolize the love between a mother and a daughter
A dog paw - for her love of her doggies and her kindness to all animals
A ying and yang sign - to symbolize her unbelievable awareness of her self and what she needs
A soccer ball - because she rocks on the soccer field!
We could not be prouder of Grace or more thankful to the people in our lives who support her....you all know who you are!
Monday, March 05, 2012
Angels on Stage
Grace and I went to se a production of Alice in Wonderland by Angels on Stage this weekend.
Angels on Stage's mission is:
To provide children with special needs who have abilities of any type and degree, ages 5-22, the opportunity to participate in an annual professional musical theatre production.
I became familiar with them through my involvement in the employee foundation at work - we gave them a grant and through the families with kids with special needs support group at work.
What a wonderful experience! The kids were truly having the times of their lives!




